Pastor impregnated my wife
I recently discovered that my wife is pregnant, and after confronting her, I learned that the father is my own church pastor. The man I trusted, respected, and looked up to as a spiritual leader was secretly involved with my wife.
I feel betrayed on every level. I am angry, heartbroken, embarrassed, and confused. I keep asking myself how I failed to see what was happening right in front of me.
The hardest part is knowing that this was someone I trusted not only as a pastor but as a person. My faith, my marriage, and my trust in people have all been shaken.
I don't know whether my marriage can survive this or what I should do about the pastor. Right now, I am simply trying to process everything without allowing my anger to control me.
I decided to share this anonymously because I need somewhere to let this out. If anyone has experienced a betrayal like this, I would appreciate hearing how you managed to move forward.
